Merry go round

I observe. I always do and always have. I have been observing ever since I was little. I used to be quite and therefore noticed things about other people around me. no matter what phenomenon of life I looked into there were was always two extremes. I noticed a pattern about the way people were and the lives they had and it seems after walking this earth for more than two decades that this pattern is quite true with my life as well.
Life has a sort of combination of elements that seem almost preset. One path with everything already planted there for you. Hypothetically when a gardener plants his flowers or trees he would most often than not plant a set of the same kind of plants together. Reason being that they need the same soil, the same light intensity, the same heat and its better for most plants to be around other plants of the same kind. Like wise, I've noticed that life too, plants the same sort of people, places and even scenarios together and they all take place in turns but they belong to the same group. Whether, its a person from the opposite sex, a job, or the kind of people that you hang out with. they all end up having similar traits.

You think that one is different from the other, but one thing that I realized recently is you always stay the same. You are who you are and by being that way you would only attract the elements of life that suit your existence, so don't be so surprised if you keep meeting the same kind of person over and over again or if you leave one job only to find yourself in the same kind of job, or if you are sick of your friends and get yourself new one's only to years later realize that they are all the same. You can't change the world. You have to change yourself and the world will change with you. There's another part to this theory of mine which I will probably put down when the time comes.